MY WIFE DOESN’T LOVE ME ANYMORE Rev. Caio Fabio MY WIFE DOESN’T LOVE ME ANYMORE By Rev. Caio Fabio SOFRIMENTUS: MINHA MULHER NÃO ME AMA MAIS... Rev. Caio Fabio -----Original Message----- From: Sofrimentus Sent: quarta-feira, 27 de agosto de 2003 To: contato@caiofabio.com Subject: Minha Mulher Não Me Ama Mais... I’ve always loved my wife. She’s gorgeous, intelligent, good-hearted and truthful. After some years of marriage (we don’t have children), she told me she doesn’t love me. I am suffering a lot cause I really love her. She has suggested divorce and yet I guess she can still love me. I pray for this to happen. After all, God can always make a miracle. I hope I can get some advice from you Peace! ____________________________________________________________ Answer: My Dear Sofrimentus! This fallen world is full of mismatchings! No one can assure you that you’ll be loved by the person you love. No one can assure that you will love the person who loves you. No one can assure that you will stay with the person you love! No one can assure that you can make blossom, in the other’s heart, the same kind of love you feel for him/her. That’s the way things are. If only things were different! If only people could meet the right person, at the right place, at the right time, with the right and reciprocal feeling, once and for all. But things are not like this! That’s the way things are. My suggestion to you is that you be respectful towards her. Nobody can dissuade anyone from anything. If her heart is unwilling, there is no remedy. What is more: if she doesn’t love you, you shall not want her to stay due to generosity, pity, mercifulness or compassion! These feelings don’t validate any marital ties. If she’s yours, you shall never lose her. If she’s not yours, you’ll never have her. Even if she stays! So, let her make up her mind. Don’t transform your lives into hell. And bear in mind: Thank God you don’t have children.! Leave it in the Father’s hands. He knows what it is good for us. As to the rest, you shall count on God’s mercy. If she doesn’t want, then keep in mind: God has something better! Trust and lean on. In Christ, our only inseparable and unconditional love, Caio __________________________________________________________ -----Original Message----- From: Sofrimentus Sent: quarta-feira, 27 de agosto de 2003 To: contato@caiofabio.com Subject: Sofrimentus Message: Dear Pastor Caio, Your words were like balsam to me at this moment of my life when I bleed through all pores. I love my wife so much! I will do all to attract her; but if I realize that there are no possibilities... Well, it is hard to say, but I want to see her happy even if it has to be at a distance. I love and admire her very much. Thanks for you advice. I ask you to pray for me..... I will pray for you, for me and for her. Hugs and blessings from heavens to you! ____________________________________________________________ Reply: Sofrimentus, my beloved brother: There shall be grace and peace to you no matter what she decides. ”He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him” Let God transform your mourning into joy. Joy? What a weird word compared to Sofrimentus!? My friend, God shall visit you in rejoice. Just keep your heart tender, even if you happen to take bumps. A kiss, Caio English version by Wanda de Melo